My Life, My Love Perception

LOVE LOVE LOVE... some of us already have it and some of us still waiting for the special one... those who have it...never lose him/her... those who still don have the special one... you will have when the time is right... :)


Well... as about me..m still waiting for the one and only my MR.RIGHT...
But even though being single I have lot of love philosophy...Love is something very unique... no matter if it is love for your parents, siblings, friends or even your sweetheart...always express your feelings and always show your love as you definitely don't want to lose any moment without expression of this beautiful feeling... 

So i will just share some of my most favourite love quotes that is true indeed and touching...

"WHAT EACH KISS MEANS"
- Kiss on the Forehead: We're cute together .
- Kiss on the Cheek: We're friends.
- Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.
- Kiss on the Neck: I want you, now.
- Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect.
- Kiss on the Lips: I LOVE YOU...
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WHAT EACH GESTURE MEANS:
- Holding Hands: We definitely like each other.
- Holding you tight pressed against each other: I want you.
- Looking into each other's Eyes: I like you, for who you are.
- Playing with Hair: Let's fool around.
- Arms around the Waist: I like you too much to let go.
- Laughing while Kissing: I am completely comfortable with you.
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ADVICE:
- If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely
in Love.
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REQUIREMENTS:
- Add this to ur favorites after reading!!
Or you will have a bad year of Relationships.
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IF YOU (LIKE), (LOVE), OR (MISS) SOMEONE RIGHT NOW:
- and can't get them out of your head.
- then add this to your favorites within One Minute and Whoever you are missing
will surprise you.

* the reason i love this quote is because somehow it will give you the sense of realization either you are thinking about someone or not... so if u did... then learn your next step... *

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

- Sam Keen, from To Love and Be Loved

     

hhmmm well this quote is definitely the most true as no one is perfect in this world..everyone has their weakness but to accept and love the person with the weaknesses is the real love...

"The spaces between your fingers were created so that another's could fill them in."

* This quote reflects the most beautiful moments between couples which is to hold each other hand in the sense of never letting go each other....  and also same goes for parents and child...remember the 1st time we learnt o walk.. our parents are the 1st person in the world to fill up those gaps... so never ever stop loving your parents... *

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in track pants, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, "thats her"....

- Harry Tottszer (from Australia)

 

 

* love this one very much... for guys out there love the girl for her heart and her feelings... not for her body... if you cannot do so..then dont approach her and break her heart...*

*12 signs your falling in love*

12. You'll read his/her txts over and over again...
11. You'll walk really really slow while you're with him/her...
10. You'll pretend 2 be shy whenever you're with him/her...
9. While thinking bout him/her...your heart will beat faster and faster...
8. By listening to his/her voice...you'll smile for no reason.
7. While looking at him/her..you cant see the other people around you...you can only see that person...
6. You'll start listening to SLOW songs.
5. He/She becomes all you think about
4. You'll get high just by their smell...
3. You'll realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them..
2. You'll do anything for him/her...
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....

- a chain letter

 

* Try this and find out if you are in love...*

 

 

My Life, My raksha bandhan

Today i wish to share on very small but yet important event in every sisters life.... THE RAKSHA BANDHAN....

It is the day, that sisters will tie colorful and decorated string on brothers right hand as a sign of love, care and blessings and in return brothers will give sisters either money or any item as gift with the promise to protect the sister from every problems upcoming her way.

this year rakhi was on 13th August 2011. honestly, this time i did not prepare any rakhi at 1st since i thought rakhi is at the end of august so i will post my rakhi to my brothers....  then my brothers came down from Kuala Lumpur and started to nag me on rakhi... so i went to shops looking for one and couldnt get any. then i had an idea of doing my own rakhi so i went searching for colorful strings and when i was at one of the shop the lady actually remind me that rakhi is tomorrow as in the day after when i was out searching....

lol.... i got lost for while coz i had NOTHING for this wonderful event..... and i went lyk SHIT!!!!!!!!! m so screwed... 1st tym i have no rakhis' for my brothers.... and then on way back driving, i was thinking what items are in my room that i can use to make rakhi... and then * ding dong*  got it!!! i have string for knitting and i went HELL YEAH!!! i got it.... so i search for some sequence in mum's sewing container...found some beads and i started to do my own rakhi..... it felt so nice..tat atleast now my brothers do not have to go back without the rakhis'  ......

so the next day before they make a move to my grandma house... i tied rakhi to them.... :)  and got angpow(money) lolx..... 

MY OWN HAND MADE RAKHI

To all my Brothers out there..no matter where you are..i always pray for ur health, happiness and wealth... and of coz  a little more brain to think for sure.... i love you all.... even u make me angry, tease me, hurt me.... learn the way to sort it out... as sisters can never stop loving their brothers forever and ever....

My Life, My Decision...

Today i will be writing on a common sharing... well, actually i was feeling a bit mood out as i was thinking about certain things in my life... especially for being lonely... and i was quiet disturbed about it as i was confused thinking that is there something wrong with me till i feel so disturbed with my loneliness............ but today i have got my answer....

In life it is always normal to have all these mixed up emotions leading u to feel useless or not worth of something...but at the end it depends on how u perceived that emotions... as for me... I choose to perceived as a break point for me to stop and look at what have i achieve...  

if i feel that i have no one with me... then its bcoz i have too many special people around me to be particular about them... HELL YEAH!!!! i have my lovely parents, my siblings, my cutie pies, my besties.... and each one of them give me support in their own way.. :)

  if i feel lonely bcoz i have no one in my life yet... well then obviously i prefer to be alone and happy instead of ending up with the wrong guy and getting hurt..

if i feel useless, then i wont pay attention to that particular emotion bcoz if i were useless i wont be the BEST of me today... YES... I AM THE BEST THAT ANYONE COULD HAVE!!!!!!!!!!

so these are just few choices that to be made either to get carried away by emotional fluctuation or to grow better out of it....               

Always live your life in the NOW... let go of the past no matter how painful it can be... Always believe in yourself and Always love yourself...

You will not achieve anything by thinking about others since it is totally impossible to satisfy everyone around you..so for the best..satisfy yourself first...live your life your way...... as long it isn't harming anyone..........

My Life, My Best Friends...

1st august resembles the FRIENDSHIP DAY...  so i decided to post about my best friends that have been the best of all.... i have few of them so i will write on each of them...

Umie...

I met her first time at 1407 westlake year 2009... she looked like very quiet girl... later on i started to get to noe her much better and realised that she is one of the type of fren that everyone need in life... she speaks in a nice way, makes me feel comfortable to share anything, she is trustworthy, i can tell her anything coz i noe that wateva i tell her remains with her all the time... she has been with me on my happy and sad times...  love u a lot dear... will never let u go away... muahx muahx muahx...

Sharmelan Raj

I met him in 2006 during my form 6 in SMK Jalan Tasek... he was my classmate and then my uni mate..he is a wonderful person i have ever met..always calm,cool n relax n understands me the best... n i jus nid to wait for his "weird" smile to get my answer.... he is sum1 that i always thr when ever i nid someone to talk to... m glad that i chose to go form 6 n i realise the reason now..i was meant to met wit my bestie, Raj.....

Jigri Poo

I met him in Utar... n why he is my bestie is bcoz he has this family values in him..like going bk to house often, talking bout his mum, sis.... have respect for girls... weneva i share anyhtin wit him, he share the same point of vie wit me... he is always thr wen i nid him but recently he has lost his way... and m working to get him bk on track bcoz now he is some other person not the jigri that i noe... oh btw jigri is nick name v call each other... :0  i noe that u will be the same jigri again very soon and m waiitn for it.. still today..ur my bestie...

Amarjit

I met this babe during form one..hahaha but that tym wasnt so close... v started get close more after form 6 hahaha and she is one of a kind as well... always ready to rock as me... and experience almost same nonsense in life which creates even better bonding among us... jus love to hang out with her and share all our "desi" (cultural) stories on guys especially... hahaha...

Aaron

He is my fren since childhood... for 17 years.... wow!!!! yes... v noe each other since std one... has been always arguing and fightin during school times... and today he is one of the person to be trusted wit any stupid annoying things he or me says... it sound funny always... we face many similar challenges in life, whereby we always share our experience and advise one another.... dear,,ur amazing fren....

So..these are my besties... no matter how much v fight, gets angry, argue or even scold one another...but at the end i am always thr for them and i noe they are also always there for me... love u guys a lot....

My Life, My Studies...

Today i wish to write about my studies... hhhmmm.. my studies... in real my studies never been such easy thing to do... but still studying is the one that i love doing and never get tired off...
My studies begin in my primary school as i didn't go for any kindergarten or nursery... my mum was my first teacher.. i still remember that mum will buy exercise books and teach me by writing all the numbers and spelling things... and thanx to mum that when i joined primary school all the teachers were surprised as i was gud in studies and my communication skills... especially in malay... it was difficult for them to believe that i did not join any preschool... hahahaha
   
Primary school life was really nice with all the mischievous behavior of mine... trust me!!! m never a quiet student ( everyone knows that now)... and as for punishments hell yeah... i was slapped by teacher twice... hahaha once for not finishing my homework and second for keep on talking till not listening to her.... wow!!! but then there were many good memories as well... such as being praised by teacher for getting high marks in exams... for being such a sweet and helful student, for keep on going on stage for competitions( story telling) and also there was once during std 6...i wasnt allowed to go extra classes n etc.. so i will ask the extra classes homework in advance and will complete it by myself... once i finish my work and all the other students that attend extra classes did not complete their work.. so they were all sent to stand outside of class and me alone in the class listening to teacher praising me.. hahahaha..how nice...

           

then it came secondary... new excitement but boring coz girls skull... hahaha... secondary was good..no punishment but yeah still the same noisy me... during my spm, before exams we were wishing our teachers all selamat hari raya and deepavali as well.. so i went and wish my maths teacher( pn. rani) happy deepavali and she scolded me back saying that if i dont get A for her maths paper then i better watch out... hahahaha... so funny.. and then for my spm trial i got A2 for maths.... and she called me and scolded me again.... " wat is tiz??? why A2?? tats why la always talk2 in the class huh!!!! '.............. i was blurred, i mean A2 for spm trial is oso gud la... but she was rite coz act i can get more than that.. hahahaha.... such lovely schooling days.....

then i went for form 6..... finally school wit guys something different..... but all oso mangkuk type.. hahaha... was fun and during form 6 i was the bully... YES YES YES... i bully guys in my class...there were 7 guys in my class and i bully all of them... till not even one dare mess with me... even guys teachers oso i bully... there was Mr. San ( indian sir, teaching muet).... he and me will always argue on topic that girls r better... then one day, he was teaching on  impromptu speaking..there was a title that" girls are better than boys" i ask for that topic he didn't gv me... then everyone was allowed in discussion after each person present their points.... after my fren present his points by stating that boys are better than girl..i raise up my hand and the sir told me...' satvinder, pls let others to speak... m sure u have a lot but save it for some other time..."    aaarrggghhhh... menyampah je i.,... hahahahaha

  

and now finally in UTAR..doing my dream course ( Psychology) and waiting forward for graduation...... every school, every year, every teacher, every classmate create something new in me.... and something that i cherish everyday... i have so many wonderful memories to live with so  i chose not to bother about the "unwanted" memories......   now when i think back, i miss every single fun at that point which makes me realize that don't wait opportunity to do something better or to have fun... but you yourself give chance to yourself to do something greater every moment... everyday.... :)

   

My Life, My Dream Guy

My Life, My Dream Guy

Well... today i decided to post about my dream guys just for a sharing... and if any of you came across this kind of guys kindly inform me... hahahahahaha.. jus kidding as i always believe that things happen accordingly so when the time come i will meet him...

maybe i already have but just havent realise... hhmmm.. lets wait and watch...

My Dream Guy.....

He is a tall, handsome with a cute smile on his face... crop hair with clean shave...( french beard will do)...

He is the most loving and caring guy that any girl would want to have. He loves me more than he has love anyone in this world( exception for his family)...

He take care about every small things related to me... such as my eating habits, when m stressed, when i am missing him... he should know what to do then...

He is the most romantic guy as in he has his own style of bringing smile to my face, knows how to surprise me( its difficult to hide if any surprise is being planned for me..hehehe).. surprise visits, surprise bouquet, candle light dinner with music in background,etc...

He is financially independent as in is involve with good employment...

He knows how to plan our future to make our lifes full with happiness,love and care...

If by chance I do get upset or angry, he knows how to make me happy again( pujuk)... 

We travels to places all around the world...

He accept me the way I am and I shall accept him the way he is... :)

He understands me and will sweetly scold me if I dont eat on time or not taking care of myself...

He is the one with whom i will spend my whole life with full of love, trust, happiness and understanding...

He has the Bollywood type of ideas to express his love...

So, basically this is the character that i seek in guy to be my partner..and if you think that why the guy is to be expected to be that way..wat bout me..??? then its very simple because i believe in "Perception is Projection" if m seeking that characters then definitely the guy will have the same from me... :)

My Life, My Cutie Pie

Cutie pie of my life.... Rajpreet Singh and Reshvyn Kaur.... my nephew and my niece... These "little devils" has always been the sweetest thing in my life... they are so naughty, smart, talkactive, hilarious and crazy like me sometimes... love them so much and whenever if i am out from the house for few days without them, they are the 1st one that i will miss...   I pray for them to be always happy in their life and may all the happiness in the world be blessed onto them...